Guide To Planning with Your Aging Parent

May 24th 2023

As our parents age, it’s important to begin working with them to plan for their future. This process can be overwhelming and emotional but ensuring that our loved ones receive the care they want, need, and deserve as they age is crucial. Here are some suggestions of topics to consider discussing with your parents to help move towards your ultimate goal, supporting your parents so they are able to enjoy their lives and live them to the fullest.

Planning the Conversation

The first step in planning for an aging parent’s future is to have an open and honest conversation with them. This can be a difficult conversation to initiate, but it’s essential to have it sooner rather than later. Be respectful and compassionate, and let them know you’re there to support them. Take the time to talk to them about their wishes and needs for the future, and make sure they feel heard and valued.


As your parent ages, they may require more help with daily activities such as bathing, dressing, and meal preparation. It’s important to consider who will provide this care and how it will be managed. Will you or other family members be able to provide care, or will your parents want to move into a senior living community? It is important to consider your parent’s wishes as well.

Health and Medical

Often, aging comes with a decline in health. Having a plan in place for managing their health and medical needs is important. This can include regular check-ups with their primary care physician, specialist appointments, and medication management. Having a plan for emergencies is essential, such as knowing which hospital to go to.


As your parent ages, they may face new financial challenges, such as living on a fixed income and paying for medical expenses. It’s important to have a plan in place for managing their finances, including budgeting for expenses, managing investments, and planning for the cost of a senior living community if needed.


Safety may become a concern as your parent ages. It’s important to assess their living situation to identify any potential hazards or risks, such as uneven floors, slippery surfaces, or inadequate lighting. Consider making modifications to their home to ensure their safety and independence, such as installing grab bars or a stair lift. Or consider moving into a senior living community with these safety features.

Parent’s Wishes

Respecting your parent’s wishes and desires for their future is important. This may include where they want to live, what kind of medical care they wish to receive, and how they want to be cared for. Listen to their wishes and do your best to honor them.


Finally, it’s important to have all legal documents in order, including a will, power of attorney, and healthcare directive. These documents ensure your parent’s wishes are respected, and their affairs are managed according to their wishes.

Planning for an aging parent’s future can be challenging but ensuring that our loved ones receive the care they need and deserve is essential. Considering these points, you can create a plan that addresses your parent’s needs and desires and provides peace of mind for you and your family.

Make a Grace Management, Inc. community part of your planning process. Find a community that fits your parent’s needs near you today by visiting our communities page. It’s not like home. It is home. ™


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